Harmeet Hanspal
Consultant

From living to please others to building a life on his own terms

Working with Nadia over an extended period was truly transformative. During our time together, I experienced major shifts in my mindset and have made meaningful, lasting changes in my life.

One of the first areas we explored was my relationship with my parents. I  recognized that I was living to please them—and it was no longer serving me. Through our work, I came to a powerful realization: you can’t change other people, only yourself. That shift in perspective released me from the weight of their expectations. I stopped worrying about what they thought and started doing things for myself—and, interestingly, they began supporting me in ways I hadn’t expected, without me needing their validation.

With Nadia’s support, I also found the clarity and courage to take bold steps in other areas of my life. I moved out of my family home into my own flat, began prioritizing time for myself, and reassessed what I truly wanted from my career. I left my full-time employed role to start contracting—giving me the flexibility to pursue other interests that actually light me up.

Another huge shift was in my personal life. After a long period of not dating, I began opening up to relationships again—this time choosing based on what feels right for me, not what would be acceptable or pleasing to my family.

Nadia has a gift for cutting through the noise. She sees through the stories we all tell ourselves and brings you back to asking the right questions. Her coaching is supportive, honest, and challenging in all the right ways.

Working with Nadia isn’t always easy—she pushes you to think differently and to move beyond your comfort zone. But that’s what true coaching is about. With her guidance, I’ve made real, liberating changes and started living more fully on my own terms.